Wow - just 2 Ts for EDs in your half of the state - that doesn't sound good. I see how it would be hard to find the right T.
So in the clinic, when they say they will refer people out for EDs, do you think they are talking about referring everyone to these two Ts? I think it would be worth finding out. I wonder if they know of e.g. another clinic that can help with these issues, that you haven't found yet - could be worth knowing about.
I definitely think speaking about these things with T wil be a good idea. I hope they will be helpful.