We all are in therapy, we all have our own thrapist. I have no wishes of family therapy with their father if that is what u are suggesting. It is way beyond too late for that. He is out of our lives & we want to keep it that way. He is a narcissist parent that has no problems using the kids as pawns or saying destructive things to them. So I can't & won't let him damage them anymore. My children & myself are already in counseling with our own individual therapist. It will take time but healing is a work in progress. My kids have been in therapy for 3 yrs, and will continue for however long it takes. As for myself I am in therapy for myself As well as survivors of domestic abuse. I just got back in a few months ago as my PTSD symptoms came back full blown.