Hey everyone...

I was wondering what everyones opinion is on me possibly contacting my husband's therapist or psychiatrist. I am seriously considering it because of the way he has completely shut me out. I spoke to his best friend last Sunday and again today and he tells me that my husband is not returning any of his phone calls and they usually speak everyday. His friend is concerned, but doesn't want to say too much because when they do talk my husband immediately says, "I don't want to talk about my marriage or anything regarding Laura".

Its as if he is just pretending that none of this is even happening and he is just going on with his life without any regard for anything or anyone close to him. I'm to the point where I can't figure out if he is manic or depressed. For the past few weeks I've been saying I think he's manic, but now he is just acting so out of sorts that I am just down right confused. He says his therapist told him last week to take some space from me and my T says that is probably the truth. The problem is that he got one, maybe two weeks of space and he decided to cut me off. I'm not getting anything out of him and when I went to our house the other night when he told me about wanting the divorce he was just plain mean. He wasn't even going to let me in the house and then when he did let me in he said, "you've got 5 minutes and then you need to go". I find this very odd considering just 2 weeks ago we were hanging out, interacting intimately, and talking about what both of us could do to make our marriage better for both of us.

Anyway, let me know what you guys think. My T says I should just let it go and that calling my husbands T or pdoc would only cause more problems, but I'm concerned that he is not being honest with them.