well...all she said was that I looked good, and proceeded to ask about the costs and if insurance covered it and why I went with who I went with...

I saw this as her trying to engage but not know the how, what, where's of what is safe to talk about. My daughter, who was also here and knows the extent of the surgery, is now expecting to be asked about the top surgery.

And we talked about the October surgery, which will be the ring around the middle skin clean up and the hysterectomy. So she knows that one is coming.