Thank you Rose76. We were a bit of opposites when we married, I was 20 and he was 24. But somehow the physical attraction and romance were more than enough to allow us to follow our own interests - I am more into house, garden, reading and he's more into music, friends, and work. Also three kids along the way kept us plenty busy and devotion to the kids trumped everything else. For the most part I was happy and content and I could say the same thing for him - except for the last 5 years, I guess.