<font color="green"> [b]I am going to say something that may not be popular but I feel needs to be said. No one here is responsible for Carye's choice. Just about everyone here would have done anything they could to help her. However she made a selffish choice. Now her husband is in pain; her friends are in pain and she can never do anything to comfort any of them. Don't sit around blaming yourself because you couldn't read her mind- her own husband couldn't as evidenced by her successful suicide. Cry for yourself cos your friend has desserted you. Cry because you miss her or because you are lonely but don't cry because you didn't stop her. You didn't have that much power. </font> [b]