I am 58 years old, 115 pounds, take care of myself and love my hubby. We had a party at our house that was his dream to have with a band and all the trimmings. Friends we grew up with and friends from work and some family. My hubby is definitely in mid life crisis as I found out at the party. He very interested in a woman who works in the office (he is in the factory) and has been talking about her a lot. Well, at our party he was holding hands with her and danced with her. My hubby is not the touchable kind of guy, very much to himself,just he and I with the dancing and touching, so this was really a red light for me. I questioned him about her the next day after all the party was cleaned up, etc. so I would not embarrass him in front of anyone. His reaction was anger and screaming and yelling at me. He has been really nervous and testy for over a year, getting angry real easy, kind of going back to the past, like he wants to do the past over again. Things like the music. We both like rock, but he is now going nuts with it, buying cologne, worrying about his clothes like he never did before, I think worrying about his age and retirement coming. I love him with all my heart, but he is making me nuts!! Any suggestions from any of you that have been through this? Help!!!