My children, definitely. They just went through the loss of their father; they don't need to lose their mom too, not this soon. Not that I'm in the mood for that, anyway, in fact, I can't remember a time when I felt less like harming myself than I do right now. It doesn't look like it on the surface, but I do have a good life---I have family who loves me, dogs to enjoy and love, a church family, and plenty of friends who are there for me when I'm in trouble. Things could be a LOT worse.