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Originally Posted by Thunder Bow
Yes, connect on a deeper level, if you can. Share the anxieties, if you can. Also he can mirror a part of yourself. Are you cheating on yourself?
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I don't know how else to connect with him on a deeper level, than besides to get more into what he's interested in that I'm not. I share my anxieties, but all it seems to do is make him frustrated, so I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place here. I don't know your definition of, "Are you cheating on yourself?" but, what my therapist and I got out of it is, "Am I not doing the things I am supposed to be doing for myself?" If so, then yes.
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Mental Dx: Borderline Personality Disorder and Insomnia Disorder.
Physical Dx: Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease.
Other: Survivor of Domestic Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Sexual Assault and Rape.
Current Rx (Mental): Klonopin and Trazodone.
Past Rx (Mental): Abilify, Ambien, Celexa, Cymbalta, Effexor XR, Naltrexone, Prozac, Vistaril, Wellbutrin XL and Zoloft.
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