Mother says she's coming to visit...but now talking like shes going to stay???

How do you say 'hell no' to your 67 yr old mother? After all, it's mom.

She's the one that hit us with anything that she could grab saying that it hurts her more than us and that she loves us while at it. Huh? (wire hangers and wooden spoons were the worse).

Maybe just being a switchy alcoholic will make her want to leave?

Or do nothing, stop stressing, and let the dhips fall where they may? After all..they created us.

There is a lot of dread in the system atm. But there are Others that are looking forward to it?

We are such a confused lot.

Anybody know what to do?