Ive read 3 of Anne Katherine's earlier books, about boundaries and self sabotage. I loooooove her. The boundary books scared the poop out of me - i was like, no way could i do that! But i knew i needed to. I think i do now. I should reread them and see where i think i stand.

I think this thread is a good idea. It seems like we on pc too often get boundaries used against us by our ts. But i do really believe, being allowed to have, to claim your own boundaries is something we were deprived of. It should have been part of our growing up. But its hard to see a lack of something.