So.. almost 2 weeks post top surgery. I am good with my chest and do not miss my old chest at all. The weird thing is that I still feel like I should not go shirtless/topless. Wife talks about indoctrination of social rules...that after some age it is not appropriate as a girl (in USA) to be shirtless. To which I said, yeah at about age 7. I guess the thing I find is odd, is that I don't usually think of myself feeling like a girl and yet this is completely a girl response...it feels girl.