Hi doubtful
It's most definitely OK that you responded to my post! There's no form of hijacking here!

Thank you for sharing your story as well ... i find it interesting that you said that you have a lot of built-up anger from being a child as you weren't really aloud to express it. And now that you mention it.... i wasn't aloud either! I was pretty much always the "peace-keeper" because my younger brothers always seemed to form some sort of ruckus between my parents.
Hope to see you around!
Jacq