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Originally Posted by Erebos
Is not to instill our own fears and failures onto our children.
Not to burden them with our insecurities.
I learnt the hard way you can't hide this stuff from them.
And naming it and discussing it,takes a lot of the power from these things.
Eugh, but I am still working on it.
By the way is guilt just a default setting all parents have?
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Understand these feelings and am still struggling in this area. I have 22 and 24 year olds at home; they are not self sufficient. I feel some responsibility about their situtation--I try to be encouraging and keep communication open. The situation is still the main source of stress between H and I. If only I could figure this one out then, really, I would have no real problems at all.....