Hi,

My wife and I have seen a couples therapist for a couple of months now and while we have made a little bit of progress I am finding an issue with our therapists style. He seems rather detached and does not really ask many questions and lets us ramble on and on about our issues, but does not seem to be solving them. I seem like we are repeating ourselves every session

1) Is this the normal way couples therapy works?
2) After how long do you think we should wait before we change therapists? I am legitimately trying to get this to process to work but I leave the therapists office more and more confused every time I go.