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Old Apr 03, 2017, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Humpty Dumpty View Post
So I found out that I have to have my gal bladder removed. They asked me if I wanted to receive blood if needed. I want to say No. My wife wants to say Yes. (No kids) I don't want them to fight to save my life. She does. I really want to right DNR on my chest. One of my biggest disappointments ever will be if I wake up from this. I want something to happen and I never wake up again. I just don't know what to tell the staff.
I don't have any advice for you. Just wanted to say I'm really sorry you are going through this and that I hope you come to a decision you are at peace with. Isn't gall bladder surgery relatively safe? Are you an elderly person?