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Old Apr 03, 2017, 02:37 PM
diana9464 diana9464 is offline
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I started dating this guy about a month ago and everything was going GREAT for about 2 weeks. Then he had some life changing news. He might be a father to an 18 month old boy. We went from absolutely great to barely speaking. He keeps telling me that he is just trying to process everything. And that he's not really speaking to anyone just working and trying to keep himself busy until he can get things figured out.

He doesn't try to make any contact with me. If I text him he will normally text back but the conversion never goes very far. I've tried making plans to get together but he is always busy doing other things.

Everyone keeps telling me that he is just stressed and that he needs some time and space. I have backed off and we only speak about twice a week. This wednesday will make 2 weeks since everything has gone down hill. Things don't seem to be getting any better. I'm trying to be there for him and be supportive but I don't feel like it's getting anywhere. I don't know whether to keep doing what i'm doing or just give up and walk away.
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