I would have thought he knew how much I disliked labels, but he had to say "you're the worried well"

This was very inaccurate even then, as well as harmful.

I know, I "should" forgive him, I "should" forgive all of them for all their blunders.

I "should" forgive the other medics who "dxd" scary physical stuff with no symptoms...

A noose around my neck

But nobody will kick the chair away

I'm a horrible person