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Old Apr 03, 2017, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Wonderfalls View Post
And some boundaries are going to be nebulous. A therapist may agree to between session e-mailing and then find the client abuses the privilege to the point of harassment. If the therapist takes the privilege away will the client think that the therapist has unfairly tightened the boundaries that he set in the first place?
If the therapist frames it that way -- as a privilege to be taken away -- then I'd say it's basically a parent-child relationship and there are bigger problems than whether emails are answered. In my experience this kind of punitive, infantilizing language is the default when it comes to boundaries in therapy.