Thank you for the advice. It's funny that you mention how your ex tried to get back with you because as soon as I moved into my apartment and it looked as if I was getting on with my life my husband came back to me. My pastor just told me today that if my husband were to find out that I might possibly be dating he would probably want me again.

I don't want to play games, nor do I want to date, but I have been asked out by a few men so I'm thinking I will give it a shot. I guess it is a waste of time for me to sit around waiting for my sick husband to come running back to me.

Anyway, thank you again for the advice and hopefully I too will look back on all of this one day and laugh.