I kind of think its good to give her some space If its meant to be she'll come back to you. My intuition, ie gut feeling is you should let me come back when she's ready Reminds me of the Aesop fable of the wind and the sun The wind kept blowing on the man with the coat and each time the wind blew the tighter the man held his coat to him. The sun gently did its thing and the man immediately took off his coat. Sometimes less force is more foreceful. Point is sometimes its important to give a friend some space. If i hurt your feelings I'm truly sorry. I do wish you well.