Wow, makes me feels sad that her going through that. I've been abroad for 12 years and I've been playing with a thought of going back but it just seems really hard to make that kind of decision, so I do admire you for doing that, because I know it's really hard to leave everything. I hope it works out for you eventually, maybe once you settle and get your own freedom, it will be hard at the beginning but if you already went that far , I think you get do it