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Originally Posted by Puella Non-Grata
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I think we love bad men because somehow we think we can fix them or look to them to fix us. After all they always somehow know what's best for us. I have a fetish for bad guys... Sometimes I wouldn't mind getting slapped around but at the same time I feel I get myself into these situations so that I look to be saved and to feel sorry for. Looking to be saved feels nice. I feel validated until the nice guy gets boring and thus the cycle continues. At least from my experiences.
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We humans have the same brains of cavemen who lived tens of thousands of years ago. Females were attracted to confident and powerful/aggressive males because it meant something for their offspring survival. We have succeeded in changing our surroundings significantly and now live in cities run by technology, but from the inside, we are still those primitive human beings. I think it is true that nice guys end last somehow, this is because bad guys are usually more confident and outgoing and maybe funnier.