Seriously look into you & your kids rights under common law for your state WITH A GOOD LAWYER....the judge will be out for the kids interests also. Just because thete was no wedding doesnt mean that it can just be walked out on even though it was probably the initial intent of not botheting to get married in the first place.


Things may be more on you & your kids side than you think or than his intimidation wants to allow you to think.

Definitely interview several divorce lawyers to see what they all havebto say about what they can do for you. It is upsetting to be forced to go through this but this is for the best interest of yiu & your kids at this point.