Thank you, Elio, that means a lot, and it is beautiful to know that someone else understands. No matter how amazing my T is, it is hard, hard work trying to get her to understand me, but I do see the benefit of this in the long run, as it means s I have to be open with her. I have to really work at sharing, which is what I need to work on IRL too but some days I would just love to have my Old T back, because she just seemed to get it!