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Old Apr 04, 2017, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by subtle lights View Post
Sure, you can say accept it. That my worldview, beliefs, likes, dislikes, my personality changes all the time. I tried to accept it but I feel so alone and lost and see people going on a solid track in their lives and carrers and I can't.
And if I try, I'll end up resenting that. The job, the relationship, the hobby. Ultimately myself. And I need to change all the time. But right now I've had enough and I don't want to do anything because I know it will always end the same way. Me getting disappointed and realising "that's not me"
But how can I live like this? I feel so alone in this

I have found that focusing on the things I always like helps me to feel I am more defined. For example, I like cats and dogs, I love the sea and the feeling of my feet on the grass, I like chocolate etc etc.

Hang on to what you can hang on to. You are not alone in this in any case!
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dancinglady, subtle lights
Thanks for this!
dancinglady, HUNGRYSwan, Lonlin3zz, shezbut, subtle lights