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Originally Posted by Echos Myron
FWIW my sister in law came to the UK unable to speak English or drive. She can now do both and has raised children and kept a job in this country for several years, so I know you will be able to adapt too. I get the anxiety though, it must be a scary prospect, and to leave T too  |
Is your SIL a woman of colour? When she moved to the UK, did she have to pursue further studies to get a job in the UK? I feel super intimidated about not having a bachelor's degree.
Omg omg I'm so scared of moving to join my partner in Scandinavia because I'm a WOC in a country where my race is hyper privileged and have zero experience being a racial minority.
I read research studies and blogs about moving to Scandinavia and feel extremely daunted about moving and losing all my independence. Terrified I will develop PTSD symptoms, be unable to work, terrified about learning to drive and I struggle so much with learning that Scandinavian language already despite telling myself "OMG QM, you speak Chinese!!"