I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. I agree with the previous poster that a good therapist might be able to sort things out if you can find time to go. I understand 60 hour work weeks where it also flows into your personal life.

I noticed you live in Tennessee and have 1 child also so we have a few things in common. I would hate the whole process of moving as well. You're in a tough spot. Best wishes in getting it sorted out.