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Originally Posted by Hopingtrying
And it was easier to be mad at him and attempt rather than feel the anxiety and guilt in regards to my insecurities about their futures.
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Oh we did talk. I think one of the problems is that my children blame to many of their troubles on their father rather than looking within. Wonder where that dysfunctional coping mechanism came from?
I am suffering from consequences that I helped create. Though the ball is definitely in their court--they are 22 and 24 years old!
It is a miracle that someone would want to be married to me for so long!