First, I have to share something funny with you. You wrote: Group therapy is a head****. Two sessions ago, my T and I were talking about the erotic transference stuff and I sighed. He asked what the sigh meant and I said, "It means: therapy is...... WHAT THE %#@&#!!?" He loved that and said it was the best description of therapy he has ever heard. He even said it again last week, haha. So I just had to mention that because your title was so close to what I had said to T.

Um, basically if my T asked me if it mattered whether he liked me or another girl better.... I would probably tackle the other girl to the ground.

I give you a lot of credit for sticking with this.