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Originally Posted by awkwardlyyours
Why can't you ask these questions? It's up to her on whether or not to respond and how.
I ask current T everything related to her practice and a limited number of things related just to her (so, nothing to do with her family etc).
Sometimes she answers. Sometimes she'll give a vague non-response. Sometimes she'll do the "Why do you want to know?" thing and eventually respond fully or with a vague response.
But, any which way, all of it is okay to bring up.
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One reason I feel like I can't ask those questions, that have been with me and growing now for a couple of months is that she is still 90+ days out before the move and may or may not even have started looking or even thinking about it. It is I that is obsessed with this stuff because it is a pending change and my lack of tolerance towards upcoming change. So I feel I can't ask because it is too soon to ask; even though the thoughts have been on my mind.
Maybe it would be good for her to know that it has been on my mind since the first of the year. I figure she probably already knows that the pending change is creating a low level anxiety for me. I do fall within a paradigm of behaviors and issues, after all.