I'm working real hard on this. The way things are right now, is , if he wants to get physical it's o.k., but he will turn his back on me. I am really getting tired of it, and wish he would talk to his doctor or make up his mind! I went to counseling and will go one more time. He would not go, and chose to talk to someone at work who told him to go talk to this woman and talk it out. I think this is wrong!!