Of course I don't want and I won't comply, but the idea of keep telling me what to do and not to do is so annoying and disrespectful. I really hate how they think we are just just puppets in their hands. As someone said before, everything revolves around the elderly in my tradition. I would get little respect compared to someone who is older even if he is illiterate and talking nonsense in the same social setting. They would tell me it is a shame to speak in the presence of older people. That is how we are treated.

I feel bad for the females in my culture, but it seems they have bought the common narrative, and they live it. I hope they will wake up and defend their rights someday, although nowadays they go to the university and work outside the home. But still the culture is (elderly) male-dominant. It is so messed up.