Umm.....ATAT / Una -- I feel like I need to pay you guys therapy fees
Yeah, I guess frail is debatable. My mother has bad knees -- a bunch of people though who know her well (her sisters) as well as those who haven't met her (a couple of my ex-es) told me to chill out on catering to her condition because she can manage okay (her routine and travels bear out what they've said but I haven't wanted to look at it too closely).
I had a knockdown-dragout fight with my ex-es over it and got mad at my aunts...