sadly its partly the parents on this one. my brother is kind of messed up and going to s.a. for his sex addiction. he has also been a drug addict, run away from home... all the typical stuff. he is 27 now and is getting help for his problems but a lot of his, and my, problems stem from our father. he constantly had porn lying around the house when we were 5,6 years old. so thats what we were exposed to. i found my dads pipe when i was little and didnt know what it was. then when i was about 16 i found it again, only this time i knew. then my dad told me about the times he had dont cocaine with our neighbor. now that im older my mom is open about stories about my father. she has told me how she was scared for her life during their marriage.

and whats worse is that growing up my dad told us that my mom was trying to brain wash us, when really he was doing the brain washing. my mom could have told me tons of things to make me hate my dad but she kept it in to not destroy our relationship. she held all that inside for so long and here i was blaming her for everything. so its no wonder why my brother is such a misogynist. he cheats on his girlfriends, he has never beaten them but he has grabbed them by the arm and scared the crap out of them. if it werent for my dad going to jail for DUIs, domestic violence etc.... im sure me and my brother would be prefectly normal kids.

it honestly is a lot of the parents during that crucial developmental stage that turns kids "evil". whether it be that the parents are beating the crap out of them or doing the opposite and not disciplining them at all.

you would think after all the school shootings and violence that teachers would be more likely to counsel kids. but instead they get upset about stupid things. the kids with real problems slip through the cracks. then kids who write a narrative that involves killing get suspended when their totally normal kids. teachers dont know what to look for. they look for the obvious ones when its never them. they look for the kids who are outspoken when its usually the kids who sit in a corner and dont talk. they are totally backwards in their accusations.