D.P. I think that anyone who's been abused by someone in a relationship or taken for granted,etc, basicly wants one question answered...why should I trust you with my feelinds again? I mean,whats diffrent now? something was wrong before, you say you fixed it but you could'nt tell me what it is exactly that you've fixed or how you've changed.it will take time and effort for her to once again see you as a safe place for her love, so think long term. but also keep up the other stuff and take the other suggestions offered here and always remember that actions speak louder that words.