I thought she was looking at the notepad, but I also didn't like the idea of a t sitting that close. Even for someone like me who pretty much adores t, that's too close. Only time I want her that close is either 1) for a hug or 2) standing next to each other looking at a sand tray I've just made. Other than that, I like the distance between the couch and her chair. I didn't like the table in between when she first brought it in, but I've come to appreciate it now because I have someplace to set my notebook.

How else will they physically assert their superiority in the relationship?

See, that's what therapists really don't want you to know.