Yes - I have seen them both.
They sit there while I whinge on.
They murmur things in what is meant to be supportive tone. The truth is there is nothing that can be done. And eventually time will do its job. I know it and simply have to endure until it does. Every day countless people suffer loss of varying degrees. I am not unique or even interesting in mine.

I don't think being human is a good excuse. It may be a fact I cannot change, but I try not to let it interfere.