Thank you soo much. I have been talking to my fiance, he is encouraging me to leave asap. Then i can take time to focus on planning the wedding in a few weeks, and de-stress. I feel bad about up and leaving, but at the same time, i know that is what i should do, and not worry about them. I dont want to be a "quitter" either, like you Jennifer.

Alokin, yes, i think taking a break from this major obligation is in the cards. It is pretty much my only main/big obligation at the moment, other then the exciting wedding which i really can't wait for!!

I have to say, this all feels like a giant relief already. The other day, when i was told "You really scare me"... i felt like saying - im scary? look at yourself!!
I was told be another co-worker who is also leaving, that they dont have the "balls" to fire anyone. So- they would just treat me like crap, and somehow enjoy it? Hell no! That is not for me.

I told another girl there yesterday - you can critic my work any time- i am a big girl, i can handle being wrong. But- dont criticize my character. Is it too hard to ask for some respect?

Now i just have to think about how to do this whole quitting thing. :/