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Old Apr 08, 2017, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Echos Myron View Post
Explaining the risks wasn't relevant to my therapy as I always knew therm all-too-well.
But it still models bad boundaries. It models lack of respect for personal integrity to just plow into someone's personal life without bothering to have a conversation about what that might mean. I've been to therapists where barely a meaningful word was said before they basically said: ok start vomiting up your miseries and misfortunes. I think this teaches people to disregard their normal boundaries, not to build better ones.