Sooo...I'm asking for honest advice and I'm prepared to accept it.

Here's the situation:

There's this girl who goes to the day center I do. We're pretty much complete opposites: She's very feminine, likes makeup and stuff like that while I'm more of the jeans and t shirt type who likes outdoor activities. So naturally we clash. She's the "omg I broke a nail type" and that's annoying to me to be around because we have to do activities as a group at the day center and anytime we do anything physical she shows up in these fancy outfits and complains the whole time about how it's going to mess up her clothes. Much like if someone in a professional job showed up in sweats to work...I'm sorry but that's not someone I enjoy being around.

When I vent about this , some people think I'm judging her for the way she dresses or that I'm jealous and that's just not true...For one, it's not like when I first met her I looked at her outfit and disliked her because of it. As a matter of fact someone else I'm close to likes to dress up, but she doesn't have that whiny annoying behavior this girl has. And if I was jealous and I wanted to dress/look like her I would just do it. To be fair, she doesn't like me either which I can't blame her for because like I said, our personalities don't click.

And she also cheated on her BF...so I may have called her a sl*t once without thinking, which I agree isn't the best choice of words. I don't know anything about her sex life, nor do I judge anyone for their sex life, but I think it's a different story when you hurt someone like she did.

So, is it so wrong to be annoyed with someone?