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Originally Posted by artemis-within
hey couchies! h and I went out to breakfast this morning and then grocery shopping. actually had a pretty fun shopping excursion, because we planned this one to the t, to spend no more than $100 (we picked $100 because we had a coupon for $10 off $100) and a handful of other coupons. We got out of the store for $98 and change all total. And that included a bottle of wine for meeeee!
This morning before we got up, we were laying in bed talking and h suddenly mentioned that whole "I don't have to say (I love you)" thing again. I guess my little spectacle at our friend's house last weekend really made him think. We talked about it a little more, and cleared the air between us some more, so that was good. I'm cautiously optimistic that things are looking better in my marriage again. I told t the other day when we were talking about what happened last weekend at our friend's house, that during that blowup of mine I did realize that I want things to work with h. I told her, we've been together for 20 years (married almost 19 of them) so there must be something there worth holding onto. She said yes, there must be.
I still wish I could have gone to t's today. Work was so stressful this past week, especially yesterday... being in her office has such a calming effect on me. Ah well. H and I had fun this morning, and I'm getting laundry done now and deleting a ton emails that have built up and will do some baking this afternoon. A pretty relaxing day all in all. (Laundry is relaxing to me because the sound of the machines running is like a calming white noise, and I don't even mind folding the clothes... they're nice and warm when they come out and that's relaxing too.)
I don't think I ever said, but whoever created this couch, great title!!
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Glad you had such a good day and that things are going better with your H.
Couch title was from me: I started it after a session with MC where my paternal transference for him was especially triggered--he was demonstrating ways for us to calm our daughter when she had bad dreams in the middle of the night and saying soothing things (like, "I'm here for you. It's OK. You're safe") in this super caring voice thing he does that just really hits me in certain receptors--the little kid ones, I guess.
I was a little afraid the title would keep Stopdog away though!