I have seen some successful career women with bipolar before in the forum, I think you're doing great, keep posting!

Sorry to hear about hostile/inappropriate male behaviors at work, congrats on getting married by the way. "I'm not a quitter!" vs 'being wise and/or smart'. I hope you'll have as much time as you need to think through this, you won't be smart if you don't know if your actions are wise or unwise, I guess you're giving all you got to that decision. I got no practical advice to give to you but, no buts. I think you'll be able to sorta settle with your strong and intelligent mind with the help of your new hubby, to think about your own health and I believe the ability to open new doors are something that you need.

If you can't sue and win over the injustice, it's simply not worth the time and effort.