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Originally Posted by Bill3
I wonder what would happen if you two did something together...like spoke civilly over lunch, or did a task/project together, or dressed like the other for a day...like if you actually got to know each other rather than drawing sweeping, negative conclusions based on clothes...
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I see your point...we don't actually argue all the time. And it's not that when I walk in the room I see her outfit and make a judgment. It only becomes an issue when she starts complaining about the outing that we usually had planned... "I don't want my clothes ruined so we can't do x" doesn't seem fair to the other people.
To everyone:
I do like the idea of getting to know her better and trying to be nice. You do have a point about her history and that it may have caused these things. I definitely don't hate her and maybe over time I can learn to tolerate her behaviors better.