Coming from a lab perspective, your ratios are normal. Most of the other values you listed are normal as well. The values cannot be compared to your family and does not make them abnormal if they are different from them; just because your family has something does not necessarily mean you will. For screening to rule things out, I would ask for a B12 level, folate level, iron level, and a liver function panel be checked at this point given the results of the other labs and if those were my symptoms that you have listed in the various posts.
No matter what, find a doctor you are comfortable with. We know when we don't feel right and it is a matter of persisting until we find the right doc and the answer that makes the most sense. Do what you need to to take care of you. I do hope you feel better and find some answers soon!