I vote also for keeping the disc yourself if that's the way they are going to behave
That is a huge job even when you are not emotionally involved. I think for sure you made a WISE CHOICE.
LOL....for about the first time I said no, I can't. I don't have the time...I feel bad because it is a friend who is I'll & is needing to sell off things from his farm & wanted me to photograph & list his 3 tractors & a stove in the cabin on his historical property....but my lawn tractor is not working & I have to fix it no money to pay someone & they take too long to fix anyway. I can't wait until my grass gets too long & I'm trying to arrange to get my own field fenced, a runin shed built & arrange to get my horse here while spending the rest of the month volunteering at the horse park on the decoration crew for the x/c Rolex show the end of April.
I'm on OVERLOAD right now besides medical issues that are a possible future issue that is sort of background bothering me right now.
I spent 4 months caring for rescued stallions 2 years ago & last year 8 months clearing out an elderly friend's farm. Now it's time for me to take care of me....time to find someone else who can help with this....have learned to not push myself past my breaking point.