If im REALLLLLY getting on somebodys nerves cuz im bouncing off the walls, i would give them a pass if they kinda blurted it out in the heat of passion. Or if theyre juggling a bunch of stuff. Wasnt the last time he did this, he was fixing the plumbing?

I mean, is it fair to expect more self control from your partner than you demand of yourself? I dont know if that applies to anyone elses situation, but it usually applies to mine. I tend to be a happy humpy puppy type.