I can understand your hurt.

I have been both the embarrassing (many years ago, pre-marriage) and the embarrassed partner when it comes to alcohol overuse.

My experience is when I've had quite a bit to drink (again past tense) I tend to think my jokes are the funniest things ever and my inhibitions go and so does my judgement. My partner has been the same and he has offended people in this state and not realised it (because of the judgement thing).

Personally I would take on board what was said to you, it might be he has a point. If he was being critical of your happy state when you had not been drinking that would be a different matter.