I definitely regret some of the things I have said and done while under the influence. The best thing about my attempt 2 years ago was that because of the shock, it motivated me to stop drinking for good. I was not an alcoholic and did not drink when my children were younger (partied a lot in college) but started drinking more when they were in high school. For many women, I think the following article best expresses why giving up drinking is for the best:

https://bewitchingkitchen.com/2016/1...cy-of-alcohol/

When we are already feeling happy, I think alcohol sort of magnifies the feeling. This is why there is so much drinking associated with celebrations. But it also damages our judgement and makes us less sensitive to others needs.