I just want to say, not everybody has to like everyone. There are people who just clash naturally. If you feel that she and her personality just don't jive with you and yours, then so be it. Sure, resorting to calling her things like a slut may be a wee bit contemptuous. Am I guilty of doing this? Sure I am, however, it probably makes me look more jealous than I actually am.

I'm like you in that I prefer comfort and functionality with my clothes and overall appearance rather than form. Sure, I try to keep my style reasonably feminine, but I try to keep things practical. I'm more the down to earth, digging in the dirt, not batting an eyelash at picking up dog poop or cleaning up dog vomit, jeans and a tshirt kind of woman. I value nature and animals over things like fashion and makeup. Does that make someone who values fashion and makeup over everything else any less of a person than I? No, but it does mean we most likely won't get along because we are so completely different in what we value.

Anyways, you have a right to your values and morals, and if there is someone who comes along in your life that clashes with them because they value totally different things, then you have every right not to want to associate with them. Does that make you a bad person? No. You just happen to have a personality that is radically different than they do and naturally you two don't get along. It's what makes this world a truly wonderful place, different personalities, different values, different morals. If everyone were the same in the ways they thought, believed, and acted I truly believe society as a whole would cease to function. Why? You can't grow as a culture if you don't have at least a few people who are radically different.

Just look at Einstein. He was so radically different, so unique, that sure, he didn't really get the standard teaching methods of the day and thus didn't prosper under their tutelage. However, when he began to think for himself and truly embrace his gift of being able to think differently from most everybody else, he began to not only prosper, but thrive. He began to rewrite what we as a society knew about our world, and the universe as a whole and because of that, we still use his theories and equations to this day to delve ever deeper into the mysteries of our universe.

Sorry, I got a bit sidetracked and carried away. You get the point I'm trying to make here, right?